All hypnosis is self hypnosis

Hypnosis Perth

‘All hypnosis is self hypnosis’. This theory was founded by the Psychiatrist, and master of hypnosis Milton Erikson. His point was, the only person who has the power to hypnotize you- is you!  The reality is Hypnotherapists only facilitate. In order for you to identify and address your deep-rooted, fears, or triggers via this therapy. This is why online hypnosis is such an accessible tool to create change in your life.

A hypnotherapist cannot make a client do anything they do not already want to do.

Understanding self hypnosis and the way it supports mental health

Hypnosis is a relaxed condition of mind and body whereby the conscious mind quiets so one can have access to the unconscious. During hypnosis, you are conscious in your unconscious mind. In a state of active imagination in a relaxed state of body.

Online Hypnotherapy or in-person, lets you change your thought processes and influence your thinking patterns easily.  It places you in a state of heightened suggestibility. The critical faculty, our conscious analytical mind is relaxed and subdued so we can accept and surrender to new more empowering thoughts and instructions.

Hypnosis is arguably the fastest way to access the unconscious or subconscious mind. During the process, we gain a deeper level of change, empowerment, and accessibility. During hypnosis, you block out all the conscious information and access the subconscious. Which is where all your deep seeded problems are held.

Online hypnosis expells fears around hypnosis.

Most fears surrounding Hypnosis stem from the idea of giving up control. If you’ve seen outdated representations of Hypnotherapists, or maybe a stage show you could have it all wrong. Do you imagine a swinging pendulum rendering you powerless and under the control of the Hypnotherapist? OR people running around quacking like ducks and other crazy stunts. If you remember no one can hypnotize you but you, you realize that you are always in control.

In the case of stage shows the participants are always fully aware of what will be asked of them and only do what they want to do. Hypnotherapists cannot make a client do anything they do not already want to do. You are simply following instructions that allow you to relax and open up to deeper levels of your own mind.

Self Hypnosis as I prefer to call it is more about what you want rather than what you don’t want. Letting go of what is causing the experiences in your life. Then installing inspired instructions that support the changes and outcomes you want to experience.

Why does hypnosis/self hypnosis work?

When you think about this, it is extremely empowering because you are always in control. You see the person who is the hypnotherapist or provides the hypnotherapy only guides you through a process. Each step is allowed and dictated by you. A Hypnotherapist’s job is to give instructions and provide a pathway and for you to follow.

As long as you follow the instructions, you will go into trance which is the gateway to hypnosis. In this state you change your brain waves.  Hence, the expression, ‘All hypnosis is self hypnosis’.

Self hypnosis is easy; we do it all the time

You already do this every day. Trance is a very natural and common state to experience. Without realizing it, you often transcend into a trance-like state. We use colloquial expressions that describe it. I was off with the fairies, on autopilot, I was in my own world, I zoned out a bit. I was not focusing, or when you say, I was daydreaming. Going off to sleep every night, we go into trance before moving into sleep. We often drive the car in trance not realizing how we even got to our destination. Have you ever driven to your old house or work?

We go into trance and follow an automatic unconscious program.

How many times a day are you going into trance? Following an automatic program that creates outcomes, you would rather not experience? During the process of trance, you shut out your conscious mind to connect with your subconscious at a deeper level. You still remain in full control of your mind and can bring yourself out at any moment!

Hypnotherapists only play the role of facilitator during the process. They provide the journey but they can’t do it for you, or to you. You are the one that has to follow the instructions and connect to a deeper place. Whereby you can change the unconscious programs to take you to the destination you want. Enabling you to better cope with the challenges you are experiencing. Isn’t that better than continuing with the old patterns?

 

What is the difference between self hypnosis and Meditation

Hypnotherapists near meHypnosis can be described as hyperawareness in an ultra-relaxed state. So, technically, the mind is awake and the body is asleep. Which is meditation. The difference between hypnosis and meditation is that hypnosis involves embedded commands while meditation does not.

These commands are designed by the hypnotherapist and the client depending on what changes the client would like to make. These become the unconscious instructions by which you would like to live your life. During trance your conscious mind is subdued and you are more suggestible. As a result, we can install and reinforce new thoughts and ideas. These empowering thoughts help you to relieve your stress, anxiety and enables you to rid yourself of thoughts that nag you. Those that are focused on what you do not want.

When you can accept, believe, and surrender to these powerful thoughts that are aligned with your goal, favorable results, and preferred outcomes ensue. When you experience hypnosis you feel relaxed and calm. Hypnotherapy can be life changing as it empowers you. It helps you let go of the triggers and behaviors you don’t want. Creating the life experience you do want.

We experience our issues partly because we are not always aware of the unconscious thought patterns and programs that are creating them. Those thoughts drive our choices and behaviour and therefore our experience. Hypnotherapy works specifically with these unconscious programs and thoughts so you can change what is not serving you. This is why online hypnotherapy is a very effective process to address any concerns or challenges you may have. You can just listen at your leisure and make profound changes in the way you think and therefore behave.

The historical aspect of self hypnosis

The history of hypnosis is as old as Egyptian and Greek history. The word, ‘Hypnos’, has Greek roots, which means,’ sleep’. However, hypnotherapy does not precisely simulate the condition of sleep. The most direct comparison would be that your body is so relaxed it mimics sleep. Your mind on the other hand is highly alert.

The notion of the Placebo effect is also very significant in the context of self-hypnosis. Patients effectively cure themselves through thought alone. They accept and surrender to the ‘thought’ that they will heal from the fake medicine. The thought then instructs their body to produce the same chemicals as if they were taking them. The Placebo effect says that despite the intake of a benign substance a patient starts to show an improvement due to psychological factors. The belief in the thought and recovery instructs the body.

Hence, online hypnosis is now becoming a popular trend. As our understanding of the power of our unconscious thoughts and beliefs over our experience grows we can understand why hypnosis works. Couple that with the foundation of hypnosis being self-hypnosis and the nature of online technological advances- online hypnosis is a powerful resource for change.

Smile- mindfulness and meditation

Mindfulness and Meditation
Hi!

Mindfulness and meditation are bandied around these days so most people know something about the concepts. This is great because everyone’s mental health is a high priority, now more than ever.

It’s all well and good when we have processes, routines, strategies to “get us through” to “survive” or keep going. What happens when those routines are gone? There is no gym, or no restaurants or no grocery deliveries, no morning coffee catch ups, or no job…. It is disorienting and scary.

When we are focused on the outside making us feel safe, or happy on the inside this kind of situation is terrifying. Because all of a sudden how do we maintain our security and happiness? It seems to be disappearing at rapid speed.

It’s time to take our power back and start feeling good on the inside so we can notice and create good stuff on the outside again.

HOW?
1. Start with breathing

(long deep breaths right down into your belly. One way is to breath in for 4 counts, hold 4 and release for 4). Do it for 5 min to start with and then increase to as long as you like. Start as soon as you wake up. BEFORE everything. (Even going to the toilet!). And then when ever you feel stress. (Check out a deep breathing demo here)

2. Close your eyes and create a vision in your mind

Create a vision of who you want to be in 6 months that makes you feel amazing, excited and joyous (hang out there- lots. Keep focused on that one event when your mind wonders, just return to the vision and the feelings.) More info from Dr Joe Dispenza here.

3. Smile

Not because something on the outside triggered a smile- just smile and notice what happens in your body- Do it as often as you remember!

Love to you all x

And if you need some help please touch base.

The shoes!!!!

Actual offending shoes
Actual-offending-shoes

I am sure a lot of you can relate. By the end of the day I’m often really scraping the bottom of the barrel. My patience, my energy, my acceptance, tolerance and love seem to be vapors. When the last of the …”I need a drink, I need the toilet, I’m not tired, I’m hungry, It’s too dark, it’s too bright, they won’t be quiet, I can’t sleep, my sports uniform is dirty and I need it tomorrow” are done, just the thought, of another child at the top of the stairs, is enough to send my blood to boil!

Because you know the thought is enough. Our amazing brains can create the same emotional intensity with just the thought, the memory. You get the same chemical cocktail in your brain as though it is really happening. So we don’t even need the real event. We can just think about it and it’s real in our minds and bodies.

So I land in a heap on the couch and release a sigh. I take a moment for myself to just be at peace. I glance over and there are my daughter’s sneakers and dirty socks on the end of the couch. I say to my husband, Her stuff is just everywhere! When I ask her to put it away she says ‘sure’, only to move it from that spot and put it down in the next room.

The frustration starts to mount in my mind because those shoes represent something. We give meaning to everything, nothing has inherent meaning, we choose what it means for us. It’s how we make sense of our world.

So unconsciously those shoes mean: I’m not a good mother because I can’t get my kid to put her stuff away. I have a lazy child. I have a distracted child. She’s never going to remember. How is she ever going to look after herself when she’s older. She’s going to lose everything when she’s on her own. I’ve made so many mistakes raising these kids. I don’t put my stuff away and she’s learned it from me, Or my husband is lazy and doesn’t put his stuff away, it’s all his fault…..we assign meaning.

We create fears for the future, blame from the past and in our body those feelings are like it is really happening. If we dwell on it, how do we feel? If we feel that way how do we think, if we think that way how do we feel, and so the loop goes on. All this often happens under the surface, unconsciously, and in seconds we have created a feeling that can loop for as long as we allow it….

My husband bless him just looked at me and said: “Those shoes won’t be there forever”. Nothing has any meaning except the meaning we give it and we can re-frame that in a second. Those shoes have sat there all night and all day and when I look at them now they mean I am blessed to have this beautiful child and I feel love and gratitude. Now that is something worth dwelling on x